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Writer's pictureAshley Clifton

"Your traumas are never indicative of who you are and how well you deserve to be loved."

Let this truth sink in: The pain you’ve endured, the hardships you’ve survived, the moments that have tested you to your core — none of these define who you are or diminish your worthiness of love. Trauma may leave scars, but those scars are reminders of your resilience, not marks of your identity.


Far too often, we internalize the idea that what happened to us reflects our value. We wonder if we are “too broken” or “too much” for others to truly love us. But here’s the reality: Love is not a currency measured by how "perfect" we are or how "easy" our lives have been. Love is a birthright. It’s the essence of connection that every human being deserves simply for existing.


Your struggles don’t make you unworthy; they make you human. And in your humanity, you are inherently deserving of love — whether you’re thriving, healing, or still finding your way forward.


When we work through trauma, whether through therapy, holistic practices, or community support, we aren’t trying to erase what happened to us. Instead, we’re learning to release the false narratives that say we are unworthy, unlovable, or irreparably damaged. We’re reclaiming the truth: That we are whole even in our healing, and we are enough even in our imperfection.


As both a holistic wellness practitioner and an intern therapist actively working with clients, I witness these journeys every day. I hold space for people to reconnect with their worth, not only through practices like energy healing, mindfulness, and meditation, but also through evidence-based therapeutic approaches that provide tools for growth and healing. Together, we create an environment where it’s safe to explore, heal, and rediscover the love you deserve — not just from others, but from within yourself.


So today, if your traumas feel heavy, if the echoes of pain are loud, remind yourself: You are not your trauma. You are your strength, your courage, your capacity to heal, and your ability to love and be loved. You are worthy of connection, care, and compassion — not later, not once you’ve "fixed" yourself, but right now.


You are enough. You are worthy. And you are deeply, undeniably deserving of love.

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